I was asked this question last week. Put on the spot by my co worker's boyfriend. My answer to this question was, well someone told me they love me this morning. Which was the truth as I told myself, God told me and my mom told me all in the same day. I know that's not what he
meant by asking such a question, but it was the answer he got. That question bothered me. I haven't been in a relationship for 5 years. Some sort of self imposed exile. But to tell the truth, I didn't want to be in one then and I don't particularly want to now.
But why does everyone else have to throw in their 2 cents about what
I am doing? I have become too content with being alone. I realize that. I do so many things by myself and I'm un-phased by it. It doesn't bother me to just do things I enjoy without another person's company. I don't think that's a problem. I truly enjoy my own company. I say I want to date, but I haven't even been trying to date. And everyone has there
opinions about it. I am going to work on not caring. I have all the power in dating, and I'm going to start using it wisely....when I feel like dating. I want a brownie, with ice cream. <~I say that before I'm about to do yoga and go back to bed. Smh.
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Wow......so right now, do you feel complete in what you're doing? Like with family, with God, with yourself? If so, then yeah, I would agree that you don't need anyone else or else your plate (so to speak) will be crowded.
Is anyone HAPPY or CONTENT with what you're doing? Because the way you said the 'two cents' comment makes it sound like people are concerned about you in a way that if you do what THEY say, you'll be happy (which sounds stupid and sounded worse even when I typed it out)
@The_ROC_357 - Thanks so much for your comment. I'm tired of people having opinions about what I'm doing. I'm happy and okay with it. Everyone is just trying to shove dating down my throat, I'm not 100% ready at this time to be commited.